By
Norma Holt
There can be nothing worse for the peace of a household than when
a bully lives next door. Things happen that are way beyond your
control. Whether it's turning your garbage bins over before they are
emptied, throwing rocks on your roof during the early hours, stealing
vegetables from your garden or robbing your tools, there is no limit to
what such a person can do to you.
The worst thing about this type of activity is that you are largely on your own when dealing with it. The police are reluctant to get involved without hard evidence. That might mean installing 24 hour cameras which are expensive and most of them require some type of monitoring. Courts cannot issue punishment without camera proof or witnesses to the crimes. Other neighbours generally do not know about it or are reluctant to get involved.
The profile of a bully is generally two-faced. They choose their target(s) well and take out their venom on that victim. To everyone else they demonstrate a charming almost loving nature. They come from all walks of life and may be wealthy or other. They have a deep-seated sense of satisfaction in making at least one other person's life miserable while tending to enjoy a healthy social life with lots of friends.
The one thing that tends to be more noticeable about them is their dissatisfaction with their lot. They can also show signs of jealousy and unrest. They may appear to be high achievers but then it boils down to how much they can take from others rather than through their own efforts.
The worst thing about this type of activity is that you are largely on your own when dealing with it. The police are reluctant to get involved without hard evidence. That might mean installing 24 hour cameras which are expensive and most of them require some type of monitoring. Courts cannot issue punishment without camera proof or witnesses to the crimes. Other neighbours generally do not know about it or are reluctant to get involved.
The profile of a bully is generally two-faced. They choose their target(s) well and take out their venom on that victim. To everyone else they demonstrate a charming almost loving nature. They come from all walks of life and may be wealthy or other. They have a deep-seated sense of satisfaction in making at least one other person's life miserable while tending to enjoy a healthy social life with lots of friends.
The one thing that tends to be more noticeable about them is their dissatisfaction with their lot. They can also show signs of jealousy and unrest. They may appear to be high achievers but then it boils down to how much they can take from others rather than through their own efforts.
As a victim of a neighbor bully it is obviously a from of behavior that requires more focus from police and others. The profile of a bully is something we should be studying so they can be more easily identified and helped.
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